Thursday Feb 21, 2019
Avoiding Your Emotional Sh*t and how it Impacts Your Sex Life
The Soft Science
I’m Dr. Erika Miley (Dr. E) — licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual MILF with a brain full of research and a mouth that doesn’t know when to stop.
This show is for the curious, the kinky, the overstimulated, and the over-it.
We’ll talk about sex without purity politics, trauma without turning it into your whole personality, and desire without apology.
Because here’s the thing: so many of us — especially women — are living in bodies that were never taught to rest, feel, or want.
We’re raising kids, running businesses, surviving late-stage capitalism, and trying to remember what turns us on besides iced coffee and fictional fae warriors.
So we’re going to talk about it all —
Why Romantasy is the cultural Prozac we didn’t know we needed.
Why erotica can feel like therapy when porn just… doesn’t.
What porn women actually watch.
And what we know now about perimenopause, hormones, and pleasure that our mothers were never told.
This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t porn.
This is The Soft Science Show.
And yes — you can stim while you listen.
I do.
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Episodes
Episodes
Thursday Feb 14, 2019
Thursday Feb 14, 2019
Erika talks with Amanda Testa, a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach who specializes in helping folks get in touch with their sexuality and femininity. They get down to business about how getting in touch with your sexuality can change your perspective and can offer you healing. Check out her podcast Find Your Feminine Fire and her Facebook group. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/45
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Thursday Feb 07, 2019
Thursday Feb 07, 2019
All things about the butt again! Erika’s first episode about butt stuff has been the most popular so far across the world. So it’s time again to visit the back door. Need information about where to begin about your own butt start with this episode. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/44
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Thursday Jan 31, 2019
Thursday Jan 31, 2019
Facing divorce? Erika talks with Leanne Townsend attorney and divorce coach about preparing for the divorce process and ways to reduce the pain of the divorce. Leanne offers a coaching program that can help you get through one of the toughest transitions of life. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/43
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Thursday Jan 24, 2019
Thursday Jan 24, 2019
When can you have sex after experiencing a miscarriage? Erika answers some of your questions about taking care of yourself after experiencing this major change emotionally and physically. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/42
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Thursday Jan 17, 2019
Thursday Jan 17, 2019
Culture is bad at handling anything that has to do with sex and shame. Erika talks with Katie Warren who has an STI. Katie talks about her experience with having an STI and how she processed the events after. This episode is full of information about STIs/STDs listen to learn more! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/41
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Thursday Jan 10, 2019
Thursday Jan 10, 2019
Every year, Pornhub reviews the data it collects on every user that views porn on their site. Erika talks about the interesting trends their data collection reveals about our porn use and our sexual fantasies. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/40
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Thursday Jan 03, 2019
Thursday Jan 03, 2019
Erika and Adam get right down to how to explore your gender and what arouses you in this episode. Adam talks about his own exploration and how he has helped his clients figure out who they are and how to express their needs sexually. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/39
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Thursday Dec 27, 2018
Thursday Dec 27, 2018
Have you had side effects from your anti-depressants in your sex life? This is the episode for you. Nick Goodwin and Erika talk about how medications can impact your sex life and options for you to try. Erika and Nick also dive into other non-medication options for treating mental health issues. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/38
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Thursday Dec 20, 2018
Thursday Dec 20, 2018
We will be offering relationship coaching groups!! Woohoo! To kick the coaching groups off we will be offering a FREE workshop both in person and online. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/37
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Thursday Dec 13, 2018
Thursday Dec 13, 2018
Part two of my series on relationship killers! Criticism is tough whether it is coming from a partner, a friend, or even a co-worker. Criticism typically focuses on a specific behavior and often has some polarizing language. Find out how to tackle criticism in your relationship in this episode. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/36
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